Status1, maybe I'm jumping ahead of Tom
No problem I appreciate the help
In your example you have ITM call with wide bid-ask spread and OTM put with narrow spread. Thus call price is 'suspicious' and you want to find out what that price might be.
It's not so much the wide bid ask spread as there is no bid at all so both the call and the put are suspicious
There is a bid now but a couple of weeks ago when I wanted to enter the trade there was 0 bid on both sides
Perhaps a few screenshots may help

I used on demand to go back in time to the date I placed the trade which was on 7/14/2022 The price was 19.16 at the time in the morning
Notice that both the put and the call have 0 bid
How would you make the calculation in this case ?
Example 2

This was on the same day a few minutes later with the price at 19.14
Notice how now there is a bid on both sides now
That's not because the market makers added it it's because I placed an order to sell a put at 19 There was 0 volume I was the only one in this underlying I placed an order to sell at 1 which was the mid in the first example and I was pretty sure it's not going to be filled than later on in this example I lowered the price to 0.80 cents but still did not get filled
I think Scott or someone else mentioned that the bid /ask prices are done by auto quote so that's why you see those bid ask prices
So even at this point with the wide but not 0 bid the option prices are still suspicious on both sides because that is based on the auto quote not the real market so I am not sure if it can be calculated
Example 3

This was again a few minutes later after I kept lowering the price while the underlying went up to 19.49
I got down to 0.50 cents but it was still not getting filled for the entire lot Than I just placed 1 lot and it got filled on that and added a few more and those got filled also than added more but it would no longer fill so I ended up lowering the price to 0.40 cents and I was filled at that price
Notice that the put bid/ask from example 2 at 0.50/1.05 did not change in example 3 while at the same time I lowered my price from 0.80 to 0.40 to get filled
I tried to get filled at the same price in a different account but It would no longer fill at 0.40
Another interesting thing is after I got filled the bid/ask went back to 0/2.0 which messed up the p/l
So if there is no active open order I guess the auto quote just adds in some bogus numbers just to have something on the screen
So I left that order in the other account at GTC with the 0.40 price just to keep the p/l in the ballpark but it never got filled
Another observation I noticed was that I was the only one that generated the volume for that day but the open interest is not updated until the next day so there is a 1 day delay between the volume and open interest numbers at least for this underlying